We want them to be able to learn how to look at a situation from all sides and then decide what is best for them. We also want them to think about other people and how their decisions will affect others. Our goal is to give them the tools they need so they’ll be able to make good decisions when they’re out of our homes.
If you didn’t teach your children the process of making a decision when they were younger, it’s not too late. It’s better to teach them now before they leave home than their having to deal with unpleasant consequences as young adults. You may want to role play with them to teach them the process.
Give them some possible situations they may actually face such as being pressured to take drugs, drinking, having sex, or stealing.
To begin teaching your kids how to make decisions, use the decision-making steps and considerations listed below.
By talking with your children about how to make decisions, you are passing along your moral values. Encourage your children to stand firm in adhering to those values. Remind them often that you love them, and then trust that they’ll make the best choice.
Of course, peer pressure can be difficult to face, but if they know you love them and are there for them, it may be easier to stand up for what they believe is right.
Be honest with them, share from your experiences when you were their age, and let them know that they can come to you to talk about anything, no matter the subject. It’s important to keep talking to your children about making the right decisions, then trust that your conversations will help them stand strong.
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